TONTO DIKE GOT A PRADO...WHAT DID YOU GET?

I was ‘wowed’ when I looked at Tonto Dike’s BBM channel. Don’t mind me.  I do that like every hour because she has got inspiring stuffs there. But yesterday’s own gave me a rude shock. I saw this ‘wicked’ Prado Jeep (Brand new Prado 2016). As a jeep freak, I zoomed the picture of the ‘machine’ because to me, it looked too beautiful to be called a car. ‘’OMG! This small girl will now roll with this machine’’ that drummed in my head. Yes! Her husband gave it to her as a Christmas gift. I scrolled down to read her message. She wrote ‘’Thanks to my KINGKONG for blessing me with an official car… God bless you my guy’’. I went speechless and then muttered ‘’official car as a wife or…’’. Honestly, I am happy for her because her husband found her worthy to deserve this luxurious gift as he wrote ‘’Happy wife you make me’’.

Ladies expect gifts from their partners every other time especially during their birthdays, Valentine’s Day, and Christmas. Some are not expecting any material gifts but they just want their man to go down on his knees and slip a ring on and say ‘’could you be my wife?’’.  Don’t blame them as they are confirming their status in the heart of their man. Gifts have a way of strengthening relationships. You might not get the big one like Tonto did but what’s most important is to look at the frankness of the heart and the resources of the giver. For the ladies, who are going to be disappointed these will help you out,

1. Face reality-

Watch his pattern of behaviour towards you. Compare it with way he used to treat you before now. Don’t try to deceive yourself.

2. Don’t change your attitude-

Many times we change our attitude when we do not get what we want. We may speak or act in obvious ways that show frustration but it is not necessary as it leaves us feeling empty especially when the man acts like he doesn’t notice you. Act normal like you used to.

3. Let go-

Wake up from your dream of expectations and live in the now. Don’t think about it. Just move on.

4. Pay attention to those who love you-

Reach out to the people who make u feel loved and are always there for you. Connect with them-whether friends or family. You can play the gift exchange game with them

5. Learn to love yourself-

You deserve to be happy. Feel the love you desire inside you first. Go get for yourself what you want and don’t leave the key of your happiness in the hands of anyone. Take yourself out. You alone know what you truly need. If it’s a ring, then go ahead and get it (fake it till you make it)

Whatever happens, just make sure you are enjoying yourself. No dulling!