7 SIGNS THAT HE IS AFTER YOUR BOOTY

I have made this very short and easy to read.

A man who values you will rather seek your friendship instead of placing calls to your booty.

Save yourself the heart-break. Don’t expect love from a player.

The dude ain’t taking you serious if you notice the following;

• ·         Enjoys complimenting your looks; paying special attention to your curve, ass and boobs.
• ·         Every conversation with him turns flirty and sexual even when you try to change the topic.
• ·         Buys you sexy things like pants, lingerie or sex toys.
• ·         Never takes you to his friends, family, colleagues or business associates
• ·         He doesn’t really like going on dates with you…only sees you indoors.
• ·         Any moment with you, he plugs and play…I mean hit the bed. Not ready to spend time with you.
• ·         He gets too busy or not really interested when you want to discuss serious matters.

Please don’t ignore these signs. When he places the call, hang up. You are too precious to be used as rags.

TAKING CARE OF YOUR MAN IS NOT OLD FASHIONED!

This new age thing is gradually throwing the lady in us to the wind. It’s easy to allow demands on our time and energy to rub us of the joy and pleasure of a beautiful relationship. If the man is the head then the woman is the neck to give him balance and control. There is absolutely nothing wrong in being there for your man. It does not make you less of a woman instead it shows how much you value him and this makes him feel loved and appreciated. Whether you are a stay at home or a working woman, you can take care of your man and this involves physically, sexually and emotionally. Nurture him…no one is saying you should take the place of his mother just act like her. Lol. The annoying part is that most men won’t tell you what they want. They assume the woman should know what they want and this makes it pretty difficult for women. Look for ways to make him happy.

5 WAYS TO STOP NIT-PICKING

It is easy for couples to nit-pick when they live together. They find faults and irritants that push them to want to ‘correct’ each other and criticize each other for every little thing. This truth about this ‘You-are-at-fault’ syndrome is that it makes one forget their partner’s good qualities.

Most relationships fail because we spend too much time pointing out each other’s mistakes and thus, not creating enough time to enjoy each other’s company. Nobody is perfect. We all have our shortcomings. The better we know and understand our partner’s strengths and weaknesses, the better we see their faults and the longer we be or live with the person.

‘’When you keep picking at the habits of your spouse, you often cause them to resent ‘your help’ so much that they dig in all the deeper into the habit, and/or they mentally build up walls of contentions, distancing themselves from you emotionally’’ says Cindy and Steve Wright. The reality is that focusing on small issues makes us miss out the blessings of the union..

7 GREATEST NEEDS OF A MAN!

What do men really need from women? A lot of women are asking this question. I get series of messages on this. The desire of every woman is to keep her man especially in this era where men head dey touch…they can just jilt you at any time and you will be wondering where you got it all wrong. With this high rate of divorce and broken relationships…a babe have got to do what she’s got do oh. But sometimes, it’s not our fault but let’s to do the needful…like we say ‘’do the best and leave the rest for God’’. Wetin person go do?

8 FOODS THAT CAN MAKE YOUR MAN ROCK IN BED

Babes, you know how we like it…so much actions…the kind that when he is done with you, you give him a salute. You find yourself giggling, smiling, chuckling and making all that ‘you-rock-man’ moves. Yea! We really want the joystick to give us joy. No woman wants a one-minute man or a man who is dull in bed.

THE TIGHTER…THE SWEETER

The first time I heard this phrase, I was wondering what was tight and what was sweet. Some guy explained in detail what it meant and I was amazed. It is no secret that men prefer tighter women for sexual intercourse. They want to feel the grip of their woman’s V-spot. This gives them some sort of pleasure when they feel the vaginal walls contracting against their penis.

RESPECT... YOUR MAN’S INTERPRETATION OF LOVE

Men get their confidence and self esteem from their career and achievements but the woman remains the sole amplifier of his self esteem. Every man desperately desire respect from their women which is their interpretation of love and are looking for a secure and confident lady who will respect them. Dr Mike Murdock said '' Men do not marry a woman because of her beauty; they marry a woman because of how they 'feel' in her presence. Men have ego and that ego needs to feel good by being massaged. A man's ego puts up a feeling of satisfaction in him as a man. Amazingly, most men will choose respect over love. ‘’Men would rather feel alone and unloved than inadequate and disrespectful’’ says Shaunti Feldhalm based on a research she carried out. It is a lot easier to respect a man you love and want. Respect him the way you want to be respected. 

7 THINGS A LADY SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR IN A PROSPECTIVE HUSBAND

I read a message saying ‘’A wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made. Choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely’’. This made me laugh initially. When I read it over again, it made more sense. Unfortunately, due to desperation most ladies have thrown caution to the wind in the issue of getting a life partner. Truth be told, men are never careless about what to look out for in a woman they intend to spend the rest of their lives with. Why then is the reverse the case for the ladies? No one enters an institution without doing a background check on that institution. You will want to find out if you will fit into what they want, if they can offer what you intend for and every other thing there is to know. That same thing applies in getting a partner you intend to spend your life with.

HEAL THY WOUND!!! 4 WAYS TO GET OVER HEART BREAK

No doubt breakups can be painful. Especially when you lose something that mattered to you. Being heartbroken can make you feel worthless and hopeless. It is natural to feel sad and cry about past hurts. It gives you the permission to express the hurt, anger and sadness. Most people want to brood over the misery over and over again. It is a process to go through and not end on it. This must be stopped as it heads no way. Put an end to this unhealthy pain. Dr Phil says ‘’It is vital to put the pain behind and move on with your life. Otherwise, you’ll give way for people to hurt you’’. It is unnecessary for you to overreact, fight or embarrass yourself. Learn from the experience .This is about you and not the other person.  Time heals but it takes our effort to speed up the process. Embrace this as an opportunity for a better you to emerge.

5 WAYS COUPLES CAN FACE THE HOLIDAY SEASON AS A TEAM

Holidays like christmas usually come with so much joy but accompanied with stress too. As a couple, how you manage the stress can either make you more united as a team or tear you apart.

If you and your partner are finding it hard to face the holidays together, here are 5 ways you can get direction on how to work together rather than provoking each other.